Legal
I am a highly experienced reconciliation and divorce counsellor and I am passionate about resolving your issues mutually. I do my utmost to prevent the need for any contested or protracted court process. My success in this endeavor is evidenced by the fact that since 2010 I have not filed one single contested divorce case for any of my clients. All of my clients for the past 8 years have either decided to reconcile and remain married or, as a result of our counselling sessions, acknowledged that they are incompatible and consequently agreed to divorce by mutual consent.
Psychological
Marriage requires work from both parties and it will certainly face challenges, both large and small throughout its duration. Simple, everyday stressors can strain an intimate relationship and major sources of stress can threaten the existence of the marriage altogether. My first priority when managing your case is to work through all possibilities of reconciliation. As long as both husband and wife are willing to address the issues at hand and be open to participating in a solution, I find that most relationship problems are manageable and the marriage can be continued. We help you to identify and develop insights into the problems affecting your relationship.
However, when challenges are left unaddressed, negative emotions rise up, unhealthy strategies develop, putting the health and longevity of the marriage in jeopardy. We look at the issues you are facing in a holistic way using various scientifically based interventions, both on an individual and as well as a joint basis. We respect your values, choices and lifestyle and help you to explore your feelings and thoughts in a safe, supportive and non-judgmental space. We aim to empower you to make informed decisions, choices and changes in your life that are right for you as individuals and as a couple. In cases where after a comprehensive counselling process, divorce is clearly the best option, we then work towards achieving a mutual consent divorce.
Couples experiencing the following will benefit greatly from our services:
- Feelings of unhappiness and helplessness in the relationship
- On the verge of a break-up
- Feeling in a state of emotional/mental/physical torture.
- Going through a period of stress or depression
- Feeling disrespected in the relationship.
- Suffering quietly and hoping the relationship will survive.
- Begging him/her to change.
- Making promises to him/her that you will change (although you don’t want to)
- Feeling that you cannot be honest about your feelings and cannot talk about them freely with your partner.
- Feeling fearful of your partner’s temper, so you avoid making him/her angry.